it's not embarrassing to cry at a memorial service . 葬儀で泣くことは みっともなくないです
on that occasion , he served as doshi (officiating buddhist priest ) at a memorial service at monju-do hall of mt . hiei . その際、比叡山文殊堂供養で導師をつとめている。
in 1017 keiso performed hokke juko (lectures on hoke-kyo sutra in eight volumes , kai-kyo [sutra read before the main sutra ] and kechi-kyo [sutra read after the main sutra ]) at a memorial service for enchin . 寛仁元年（1017年）の円珍忌に法華十講を行った。
the title of this chapter was derived from the waka poem , which kaoru made for oigimi (oldest daughter of hachi no miya ) at a memorial service on the first anniversary of the death of her father: ' i hope that we will stay together for long just like these trefoil knots which you tie .' 巻名は薫が一周忌法要に事寄せて大君に詠んだ和歌「あげまきに 長き契りをむすびこめ おなじところに よりもあはなむ」（あなたが縒り結んでいる総角結びのように、あなたと私が長く寄り添えるようになりたいものだ）に因む。
